“Sexual energy…is more a function of health than age.”

When I wrote my very first Grandpa Does Grandma blog, Sexy Grandpa was watching football (typical Sunday activity) and not aware of what I was up to. Feeling very enthusiastic and proud of myself, I was eager to share my thoughts with him and waited patiently for the game to be over. Well, it sort of went ok and honestly, not what I expected. I read him my Getting Started post and the first thing he said, “Boy, do I feel pressured.” What? I had to quickly remind him this whole journey was HIS idea. The last thing I want from this unfolding adventure is competition or pressure. I guess once Sexy Grandpa wrote his book, he thought the task of writing and marketing was over. Now that we’ve committed to share more of us with all of you, this is about ‘let the writing begin’. Gently, I reminded my loving husband that this whole process – learning, writing and sharing was a commitment we both agreed to carry out. I also mentioned that benefits were definitely contingent on his engagement. Guess what? When Sexy Grandpa heard the word ‘benefits’, his entire attitude changed! In our relationship, benefits often surfaces as the #1 way to get my guy to get going and to agree to do what needs to be done. Hey, it that what it takes, I’m all in (figuratively and literally).

So, we are slowly making progress. We’re about to do our first video – the two of us having a Saturday night date/reception evening in celebration of my contributing The Foreword to a newly released book, The Voice That Changed Everything. While we often prefer to stay home on Saturday evening, cuddle up to watch a movie, make popcorn and express gratitude at being together, it’s a treat to get all dressed up to have somewhere special to go. Sexy Grandpa and I are having fun so far (in spite of a few glitches) and hope you are as well by connecting with us. As always, stay tuned. We’re counting on you to keep us young at heart.

~Sassy Grandma

Here I am, and the expression, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks” keeps popping into my head! At 71 and while feeling young I clearly recognize I’m out of touch and out of sync with the generation that communicates with ‘twitter’, ‘periscope’ and ‘you tube’ to name just a few platforms. (I am comfortable with Face Book, however!) I was brought up with a party line telephone where one had to take turns to use the same number. Just imagine never having any privacy during any phone communication. Oh have times changed! Now, with advanced technology, one can simply choose to communicate anywhere at any time to anyone in a massive way!

Why am I telling you this? Because my crazy husband, Sexy Grandpa, got the idea to write a book (Grandpa Does Grandma – The ABCs of Senior Sex) and has all of a sudden decided we need to broaden our messaging in a ‘bigger way’ using advanced technology to share the book, our story and lives so others can benefit from both our experiences and wisdom. Are you still with me? The book was written with my permission because we did agree it was time to dispel any notions about sex and aging. We just didn’t consider that anyone other than our generation would really be interested. Boy, were we in for a surprise! Many of our young readers and followers found us amusing, to be admired and that we were actually setting a good example as to what one can do and expect as we age. Hence, using online tools to spread the word about sex, aging, intimacy and a life of fulfillment was the step we had to take if we were going to enlighten and educate more followers.

Now, I’m a student. While I’m a college grad, have a master’s degree and weathered many storms over the years, one would think I’d find the basic online technology tools easy to maneuver! Wrong! I’m actually taking lessons! I want to feel comfortable with a ‘selfie stick’. I want to feel broadcasting my vulnerability to whoever wants to connect easy to do. I want to prove, in fact, that one can teach an ‘ole dog new tricks’. Why you might ask? To prove that being good at anything (sex included) takes time, practice and willingness to learn! If I have your attention, please stay tuned. I sure would like to impress our 3 kids and family that Sexy Grandpa and I can engage, inspire and entertain even at our age. We’ll be sharing our story in print and with videos. Stay tuned. Sexy Grandpa and I are counting on you to keep us young at heart.

~Sassy Grandma